I absolutely love a pretty pair of pajamas! Weather it’s a Girls Night In, a fun trip away, or lounging around the house….feeling cute and comfortable is important to me! I’ve been rounding up some of the most adorable pajamas I love right now and sharing them with you today!  Oh, I know I’ve share robes and slippers with you too in other posts here and here, but I thought it would be appropriate to include them in this post as well so that you have all of your sleepwear in one place!

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Ok, girls…..let’s keep it real for a minute…..

I could possibly LIVE in my pajamas if they were always this cute and comfy…haha!  Seriously!  Although, I do love a good pair of jeans and a pretty dress.

Sometimes, as seen above, I leave them on and run out the door in them whilst dropping children off for school (and praying that I don’t break down or have a car accident hahaha). At least the pj’s are cute and at least I have my favorite Mini Millers on and my toenails painted!

Sometimes I wear them when I watch a Royal Wedding (with Grandma’s fancy hat) and drink tea.  I can’t believe I’m sharing this silly selfie with you but we are keepin’ it real right?!  LOL!  I actually shared this pic on my Instagram stories after Princess Harry & Meghan Markle said, “I do!” last weekend.  Y’all LOVED that and we laughed together!  My grandma’s gotta be up in Heaven laughing at me because she knows that this is typical of me ha!

{Whoah selfie!!!!}

Sometimes when my hubby is traveling and I roll over to FaceTime to see that for once I washed my face the night before so I don’t have mascara “raccoon eyes” and I slept so hard that I didn’t roll over much and my hair is still curled and has some nice body…I stay in my pj’s to take a pic and send it to him and then we chat.  I might have some bags under my eyes but with the morning light and cute pajamas….who cares right?!

Sometimes I wear them all day and blog in them and then sit with Brooklyn and play our ukelele’s together.  And then I wear them to bed again haha!  Don’t judge!  Not often or anything but it has happened!

And of course at the end of each night, no – not sometimes but EVERY time, I put on some adorable pajamas and grab some tea or a Diet Coke and either cuddle with Giorgio for a little bit or cuddle with a kid.  Then they all go to bed and Josh and I {cuddle} and watch our shows.  I love pajamas, people!

So here are some that I own or I’m crushing on lately….

PAJAMAS

Let’s talk about robes….

I love them!

While I get ready I usually wear one.

Brooklyn and I will do facials and paint our nails in our pj’s OR robes.  See more of that here.

So here are some I love or am crushing on below.  I have a LOT of pj’s and robes and slippers.  I mean, I truly love lounging and feeling pretty!

ROBES

SLIPPERS

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Remember the saying, “Calgon, take me away!” I feel like I still say that often. There’s nothing like a hot bubble bath for relaxing and unwinding after a long day. I’ve always loved the way I feel when I go to a spa for a massage, saunas, steam rooms, and in the hot spas and aromatic showers. We may not have the luxury of doing that as often as we’d like, or at all for some. BUT, you can certainly turn your home bath into a pampering session and I’m going to share with you how to create the perfect bath experience at home with a few easy tips.

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I can’t believe we’ve been in our home for almost 6 months now. I recently shared our master bath reveal HERE and you can read that post for all the details and sources.

I love our view of the wetland and tall trees behind our home and the farm next to us with beautiful horses running around all day.

I can sit here in this tub and watch the sunset at night and it’s quite magical and relaxing. If you are designing and building your home, be mindful of the location of your master bath and the direction it’s facing for the ultimate experience. We also love our large windows with no blinds. It allows a lot of natural light to flow in and also allows us to watch the sunsets. Our old apartment had little to no design aspect to it. Plus, the lights constantly flickered at one point in time. Of course, we fixed it by calling a local electrician (like the one you’ll find when you click here). But now, we have the best bath anyone can design!

Having a bath caddy is a MUST! You can put your favorite bath essentials there.

I have body oil and rosewater spray on mine but you can put lotions and bubble bath soap on there too. Some people use cannabis creams and oil to make a relaxing bath. You can also Buy CBD oil: https://blessedcbd.co.uk or check similar online stores as Blessed CBD. The anti-inflammatory effects of CBD can rejuvenate your skin wonderfully.

It can hold your cotton balls and Q-tips, decor, rolled towels, candles, and more!

Bath salts are a MUST for baths. Once or twice a week I will have a “detox bath” with spearmint & eucalyptus epsom salts and baking soda. Read more about that in THIS POST. It also has magnesium which is so good for you and so your body just soaks it up. Another plus is that it has such a lovely and relaxing aromatic effect, just as a day spa would.

I also love having this tufted ottoman next to my bathtub so that I can set my phone there or a tray of something cold to drink.

I also have a towel and robe and any lotions or perfumes ready to go.

Whilst I love love love a good bubble bath, I also love bath bombs. I found something similar the other day at Michaels (random) and they are bath flowers. It was such a pretty set and smelled good so I grabbed them. Anything like that really makes the bath feel more special and relaxing. As I love bath bombs so much, I have thought about buying some wholesale bath bombs and maybe creating my own bath bomb business one day. Who knows what the future might hold! For now, I’m just relaxing with bath bombs.

Putting them on top of my bath bubbles of a pink bubble bath just looked perfectly delightful and inviting!

Of course, a luxurious bath isn’t complete without a fabulous-smelling candle that just makes you melt into the bubbles.

The only thing missing is music BUT I have lots of relaxing music on my phone under “Bath Playlist”. I still have Enya on my playlist because 25 years later I still think it’s the perfect bath relaxation music. Soft R&B hits, ballads, classical music, meditation music…they’re all good ideas as well. I may have some songs that sound especially good with my master bath acoustics and I belt them out at the top of my lungs. In my head, I sound like Kelly Clarkson but I know my family might beg to differ….haha!

When the sun goes down this is the perfect place to be, as I can see it through these windows. You might also spot some deer, jack rabbits, coyotes and other wildlife. It’s spectacular!

While I love robes and own many that I adore, I also love a bath towel wrap with velcro. If I know I’m getting ready for the day right and just took a bath after going to the gym and I’m still feeling a little hot, I like to put this on to stay nice and cool and get ready so that I’m not sweating in a robe. Pretty slippers are a MUST as well and I have quite the collection because I wear them all at different times of the year and with different robes. I love feeling pretty in a robe and slippers and fresh after a bath. That’s a LUXURY all on its own! I’m sure every mom knows what I mean!

My new bath mat showed up today and I’m thrilled to add a bit more blush to our master bath. And it never hurts to have a sweet greeting like this one as you’re entering (or exiting) the bath.

You may only see the bottom of this robe but it’s one of my favorites and you can see more of it in THIS POST where Brooklyn and I have matching robes (back in our Dallas home).

A pretty chandelier like this one is always the icing on a cake. It helps create a feeling of luxury and makes you feel like a queen!

No matter what kind of master bathroom you have, even if you have the tiniest little bath, you can certainly implement some of my tips to help you feel more relaxed and to have a more luxurious and spa-like experience right your very own home.

Below are some items from this post and other suggested items, for your shopping convenience!

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Candles

Bath Caddies & Bathtub Caddies

Bath Mats

Towels

Slippers & Robes

Other Bath Accessories & Luxuries

Don’t forget, friends….

MAKE TIME FOR YOURSELF!

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As I sit and write this blog post, my oldest child (and only daughter), Brooklyn, is 10 1/2 years old.  And going on 16.  It happens so darn fast.  I remember every detail of the day she was born like it was yesterday.  Between then and now, we have done so many things that my pre-motherhood self dreamed of doing with a daughter one day.  There are so many events and milestones to come and memories to be made.  I’m in no way rushing it, not one bit.  But there are so many things that I want to tell her and things I want to teach her.  Many of these things are very deep or spiritual or personal and so those will be written down somewhere else.  But the advice for my daughter that I share here, I hope someone else can also benefit from.

To keep from writing a novel instead of a blog post, I decided to choose just 10 (of the 500+ things I could tell her) to share here. I hope she takes these bits of advice to heart as she grows into a woman and marries and has a family of her own.

1- Make dinner time your sacred family time!  When kids come home from school, it’s snack time, homework, maybe a short break and then either dance, sports, scouts, cheer, church activities or play dates.  We are a very close family and I want it to stay way. I don’t just mean that I want us to get along but that I want more.  I want us to be connected! Dinner time is sometimes crazy or quick and even an occasional frozen pizza on paper plates.  But we make a habit of sitting and blessing the food and eating dinner together.  I love it.  Every single time I think to myself, “THIS is what it’s all about.”  You will get this one day.

This pic was taken for our Back To School Party dinner….see more HERE.

Occasionally I’ll set the table in a special way or throw a surprise themed dinner and I feel like a cross between June Cleaver and Martha Stewart. And then there are the times that dinner is whatever I can throw together quickly or order and grabbing the paper plates and I feel more like Peg Bundy ha!  But that time is still sacred!  Many times, you kids will share something you didn’t feel like sharing earlier or forgot about.  It’s time to resolve problems or talk about goals and plans. It’s time to be a family!!! I love it.  Every dinner. For one day my babies will be gone and I will miss those conversations and cooking for both of you.

This was a fun night!  See more of Our Luau At Home dinner HERE.

2- Fall in love with homemaking!  Whether you live on your own one day or have a house full of children, your home is your castle. Make it yours! Beautify it and make it comfortable and a place you long to go to at the end of the day.  Find your own unique style and don’t listen to everyone else telling you how you should decorate (unless you ask for opinions).

Take pride in keeping a beautiful, clean home.  Learn how to find a look or style for less.  Always be learning new things and find some DIY projects you love that can add a special touch to your home or be useful.

My DIY bathroom shelving tutorial found HERE.  You can also search on my blog for other DIY projects that I know you’ll just love!

Keep up your love of baking and make sure you learn to cook, too!  I love that you love to make “healthy choices” and I’m also so glad you love to bake things with me like macarons and cookies and cupcakes and cakes.

These Lemon Cream Cupcakes (recipe HERE) were sooooo fun to make with you!  Our new frosting bulb was hilarious to figure out and make it look like this.  But you catch on quickly.  You’re a natural!  Baked goods are even more fun when they’re shared!  So always do what I do (your kids will probably complain about this like you guys do) and give some away!  It brightens someone else’s day when you show up with baked goods at their doorstep for no good reason.

3- Take care of your skin and body!  I’m currently 38 years old and oh how I wish I would have listened to my mother and grandmother and taken care of my skin!   They said to wear sunscreen, even on my face. I did not. They said wash your face each night.  I am not always good at this, eek.  But you need to wash off that pollution and everything that your face endured that day.

They said wear moisturizer early and eye cream when you’re older.  I just started doing this the last couple of years.

Ugh, I cringe and wish I would’ve listened. I see the sunspots now and I am starting to see the fine lines.  NOW I’m listening.

And treat yourself to a face mask!  It is so so good for your skin and feels amazing.  Now that was one I enjoyed, even at your age, with my girlfriends when we had sleepovers. Ok, we mostly liked the pictures that came from it and jumping out to scare our brothers with green and brown faces but still…so fun!

Trust me….you’ll be so grateful for this advice 30 years from now.

These gorgeous robes were sent to us by our sweet friends at Plum Pretty Sugar and they are dreamy!   Shop below!

4- Don’t compare yourself to others!  This might sound impossible because, especially as women, we tend to do it. BUT DON’T!  I don’t see you struggle with this now and I’m grateful.  But you’ve not hit your teenage years and everyone is trying to figure out “how to be cool” and “who they are” and “what they should wear or look like” during that time.  Just be you. You’re fabulous.  You’re gorgeous.  You have the funniest and best attitude I know and the biggest heart! Don’t forget that quote we love, “She knew WHO she was and WHOSE she was.”

More on Brooklyn’s Pursebox (lunch box) HERE.

I wish I had half of your self-worth and confidence at your age that you have.  I’ve tried hard to instill that in you.  It wasn’t until, maybe the last 4 or 5 years, that I just didn’t care anymore.  I realized I was beautiful, at any size, and I knew I was talented and smart and funny and had a pure heart.  I’m not perfect, but I LOVE MYSELF! I want that for you, now and always!  You’ll always be content when you realize that you are uniquely you and NO ONE can be YOU!  That’s your superpower, girl!  You’re everything I could’ve hoped for in a daughter and I’m very proud.

I think I would have enjoyed my teenage and young adult years so much more, had I known “who” I was.  Meaning, I wish wish wish I knew my value! But I do now!  I love sharing that with you!

5- You CAN have a stylish AND comfortable home while raising a family!  Except for baby-proofing cupboards with poisons and outlets with covers, I didn’t ever “baby proof” anything.  I taught you and Beckham how to wash your hands, not leave the kitchen with food, grab a tissue to wipe your nose and not wipe it on my nice sofas or curtains.  I taught you to not knock over or touch my floor pillar candlesticks or pick at my beaded pillows.  And you didn’t.

People told me “you can’t have nice things when you have kids” or “you can’t have white bedding when you have kids”…

…and especially “you can’t have white sofas when you have kids”.

Well I always have and they are all still in good shape.  It’s up to you!  If you take time to teach your kids, then hopefully they’ll listen and obey.  Consistency is key and there must be consequences if rules are broken.  That being said, some of our little ones come to this earth with stubborn little personalities (haha) and if it’s too much of a battle, it’s not worth it.  Use good judgment.

See more details on this look-alike Restoration Hardware Balustrade Coffee Table HERE.

And ALWAYS remember that you can have a beautiful home on any budget!  Find joy and thrill in getting the same look for less!  It brings a great sense of accomplishment and that is how you can also give support to your family’s finances.  If you are smart with your money and live within your means and stay on a budget, you might be able to stay home and continue enjoying your role as a homemaker.

6- Organization is your key to sanity!  You see me run around like a crazy person but I wouldn’t have it any other way.  I wear a lot of hats and you probably would too.  Between our family activities and my personal commitments and all that you children have going on…there is no way on this earth we’d be able to do it all without organization.  It’s 2016 and thank goodness for cell phone alarms and alerts and calendars to keep me straight and remind me of all we have to do and places we have to be.

See more HERE on my office space and DIY Framed Wallpaper Panels.  Office reveal coming soon!

I make lists weekly and daily. Not to pressure myself or feel this award-winning sense of accomplishment (although there are many days I do a happy dance and feel a trophy is deserved for checking everything off hahaha) but I make these lists to keep me focused and driven and remember what tasks have the higher priorities and are essential in keeping our family and household (and my business) running smoothly.  I see you with your planner now.  Keep that up!  It’s a good habit to be in, to keep a planner.

Organization applies to your home!  Your closets and cupboards and pantries and even your fridge can be organized and tidy kept in order.  Not everyone values this advice and that’s fine.  To each their own.  Not to say I don’t have that junk drawer (a necessary evil) in the kitchen or that small little secret “Monica closet” (Friends reference haha…i need to clean that and organize that thing) but you will feel greater peace and a sense of order and pride in a home that is organized and neat and clean.

You won’t have a meltdown when someone announces they are coming to stay with you as they are passing through town.  You’ll be ready and it will be a joy to have them.

7- Create your own special occasions for no reason at all!  It doesn’t need to be a birthday or holiday to create something special.  You can serve and present things in a way that make people feel special and enjoy what you’ve made even more.

Celebrate the fact that it’s cold outside….finally! (We’re in Texas so we wait longer for the fall and winter seasons.)  Remember the time it was freezing and you and Beckham came home from school to this fun little Hot Chocolate Bar I put together for you and your friends?  You loved walking in the door, shivering and cold, to find this.  Y’all got soooo excited!

We also “celebrated” our first time making macarons together and then made them over and over and shared them with guests so beautifully.

Fresh-baked cookies is always a “special” occasion ha!  I love that you kids appreciate how I put them out for you.  We even did this for our movers and they felt so special.

The first day of school is always special but last year you and Beckham didn’t want anything heavy or fancy.  You wanted muffins and juice.  That’s it.  Well, that left me with the need to get creative to make it feel a little more fun.  So I did.  My muffins weren’t very big and fluffy but they were delicious and I loved seeing the look on your faces when you came downstairs.

Last year you kids walked in from school and saw this…..

“What’s the occasion?  What’s this for?”, you asked.  No occasion.  It was just Friday, the end of a long school week, and I had just bought fresh pink peonies (our favorite).  Do you see now?  Everyday is a good day to make it a special day.

8- ALWAYS have a grateful heart and have an attitude of gratitude!  Count your blessings and tell people “thank you”.  A hand-written note is becoming a lost art and it makes me sad.  Sit and tell someone you appreciate them.

One of my favorite quotes….”When you look at life through eyes of gratitude, the world becomes a magical place!” ~Jennifer Gayle

See blessings and miracles tender mercies in each and every day!  The more you focus on your blessings and what you’ve been given, the happier you are and you will have room to receive more and more of the good things in your life.  God wants to bless you and He loves when His children are grateful.  Go to Him and tell him “thank you”.  This will keep you happy and optimistic and it will continue to be 2nd nature for you to find joy and beauty in each day.

9- There is always room for one more!  This has been repeated over and over to you since you could understand it but please don’t ever forget it.  Do NOT belong to a clique.  Do NOT have a name for yourselves or publicly announce that you are a “tribe” or “club” or “squad” or give yourself some title.  That is exclusive and hurtful to others.  Do NOT limit yourself to just one group of friends.  Be friends with EVERYONE!  You are no better than anyone else.  I have always wanted to be friends with everyone and it has brought me so much joy!  I have met the most amazing women! You might be missing out on very dear friendships and the blessing of getting know others.  Some, of which, might desperately need your friendship.  Some of my closes friends are women I never thought I had anything in common with, until we got to know each other.

That being said…know who your true friends are and in whom you can trust.  Stay away from the “mean girls”.  Forgive, but move on.  Do not put yourself back in a position to constantly be hurt over and over.  Remember our favorite saying that, painfully, we’ve had to learn over the last few years?  “Invest in people that invest in you!”

This advice doesn’t come from a bitter place.  It comes from a grateful heart.  You will find so much joy in this principle as you grieve friendships that are not healthy or in friendships with those that don’t make an effort with you, as you do them.  You open your heart to those that God will put in your path and can become great friendships.  Also, and this is huge, make sure that you are kind to everyone but in no way do you need to hang out or be friends with those that make choices that do not live up to your standards.  If they constantly participate in behavior that is not in accordance with your standards, the standards we’ve set as a family, and if they are not kind to others.  Walk away.  Be kind, but walk away from them. (I know you’ve done this already.) They will not bring out the best in you or uplift you.  They will not encourage you to be the best you can be and attain your full potential.

10- Stand up and be counted!  Never follow what everyone else is doing.  Think about it.  Be a leader. Do what is right, no matter how hard it is.  You are special and not sent here to fail.  You’ll make mistakes, but I see how you pick yourself up and get right back to it. You’re a go-getter.  That’s my girl!  I love how you stand for what is right even though {at an early age} some have given you grief for it.

There was a poster I saw hanging in my Life Skills Class in high school and it said…“What’s popular is not always right and what’s right is not always popular.”  You might stand alone in certain choices or opinions or beliefs.  That’s okay.  God is with you and He is there for you.  He will strengthen you and bless you for your courage and right choices. Don’t forget…You ALWAYS have me!!!  And your dad and Beckham and all your loving family members.  But I’m always here and you can talk to me about anything and everything.  You’re already doing that and I love it.  I love our talks. I love pillow talk and I love our obsession with Audrey Hepburn and Anne of Green Gables and pink and baking.  We have the best time.

BONUS tip- Find what brings you JOY!  Yes, life is hard and we are here to learn and grow.  But we are also meant to have joy.  Find joy in the big things, eternal things, important things.  Find joy in the little things like….a butterfly landing on your arm, a dance party while we make dinner (or in our robes in my bathroom just before bed, haha), finding a good sale on our shopping outings, and putting on your rain boots and dancing in the rain!  Life is so good.

Excuse our selfie but we wanted to remember this hilarious dance party we were having!

You’re like looking into a mirror.  You look like me and you act like me and, as Dad says, you even cry like me.  Not because you’re not your own person, but because you are a part of me.  You’re also much better at some things than I ever was (i.e. being on time).  Take pride in that all!  You have so much ahead of you and I’m loving watching you grow into this beautiful young lady.  If I had picked out everything I wanted in a daughter and ordered you online, you’d be exactly what you are now.  You made my dreams come true the day you were born and every day since.  Even on your worst days, I have been proud of you.  You’re learning and growing and trying your best.  Keep it up, sweet girl!  I love you more than Diet Coke, Disneyland, Creme Brûlée and Christmas all put together!

Love, Mom

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